Sunday, February 27, 2011

Jauary 22, 2006

Yea Yea Yea I know this is only a face a mother could love! Well I feel for it too! (lol) How we met......My husband and I had split up for good finally! I was in a situation with my children and my mother was ill and needed help and turns out I needed a place to stay! So I packed up what belongings I had left and moved back to the big old town of White Heath. Once my mom started recovering from an operations I got a job at a call center in Champaign called Americall! Not the best job in the world but a job that I could use to save up money to get a place of my own and move forward as a SINGLE woman! After going through the 2 week training period at work I was moved to first shift and to the call center floor! I noticed this man, he was tall, heavy set, black (obviously) and shaved his head bald, ALL THE THINGS I FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A MAN! So I have my eye on him for a few days but had come to a conclusion on day that he may possible be into men and not women! So yes here is the story behind that thought! One day while in the break room alot of people had orderd pizza, he was standing up eating a slice of pizza when the sauce started to drip everywhere. It was already on his shirt but he went racing across the break room to get a paper towel so that he wouldn't get it on his shoes! COME ONE NOW STRAIGHT MEN DON'T REALLY GIVE A HOOT ABOUT THERE SHOES! I laughed it off and went on about my work and never botherd to pay attention to him again! A few days later while on break I was walking down the sidewalk to the parking lot to smoke a cigarette he stops me saying " Hey Baby Girl what is your name?" my reply was " Hey Hello my name is Brandi!" We small talk and go on about our day not saying another word to each other. The next day at break again I am walking down the sidewalk to smoke a cigarette he stops me again...."Hey Baby Girl whats your name?" I giggle look at him kinds cross eyed and reply " Hey ummmm my name is the same as it was yesterday when you asked. I don't change it everyday!" his reply is...." I drink and smoke to much to remember I am sorry!" That right there threw up a RED flag ugh you drink and smoke! Not a good combo in my book. He asked for my number and just out of fun I give it to know assuming he would FORGET or never call! While that night after work I was on the couch talking to my mom and my phone rings and it is a number I don't recognize so I answered sheepishly. And who to my surprise it was him! We talk about all kinds of things but at this time I have walls up and don't want to let him in quite yet! So we say our goodbyes and I go to sleep really not reading to much into his call! The next day at work, as soon as he comes into work he walks up to me and says " Good Morning Beautiful how did you sleep last night?" I laughed to the point I had tears in my eyes he smiles and walks away and gets to work! That day at break I didn't go out side because I had an appointment next door. When I was walking back in he was standing by the door and he stops me trying to find out why I was next door and why my eyes were swollen with tears. He sits me down to calm me down before I go back in and have everyone see me in shambles! We talked we shared an INNOCENT hug and went back to work! Everynight for about a week he would call right before I would go to bed to say good night! And every morning at work he always made sure he would tell me good morning with his great big dimple filled smile. Not thinking to much into it I assumed he was not into women and he just wanted to be friends...... until one night during one of his phone calls he says " I want to see you and I want to see you tonight! Where do  you live and how do I get there?" WOW really? I am thinking he is having a lonely bored night and maybe just wants some friendly company, So I tell him where I live and how to get to White Heath. Maybe he will come Maybe he won't I have nothing invested so either way I don't get hurt. To my surprise about 30 minutes later he calls to tell me he is there and to come to town with him! Hell I didn't have anything else going on and kinda wanted to get out of the house! We drive around talking, laugh being silly! It was getting late and we both had to work in the morning so I ask for him to take me home. On the way home he began to tell me that he had a girlfriend that he lived with! That is when I knew something was up cause my heart kinda went weak the awww really that is a shame! Until he says they aren't happy she is not the right woman for him and he really enjoys my company and talking to me. WELL I AM NOT A HOMEWRECKER MR. I told him that I would be his friend and would be there for him to talk to but not to expect more from me, he knew I had been cheated on and I know how it feels. So we get to my house and I simple tell him call when you get back to town that way I know you made it safely! He leans over grabs my face and kisses me like I have never been kissed before (you know the fireworks in the eyes kinda kiss the one that makes you almost dizzy) I don't say a word I just get out of the car and go in the house and go to sleep! The next morning the usual good morning greeting with an even bigger smile and he says he needs to talk to me on break! So on break we go to lunch together (taffies if I remember right) He asked what I was doing that night and asked if I wanted to go out on a date with him! A DATE can't hurt i figured! We go to the club, after the club he takes me home to the apartment I started sharing with friends we called me to the door then he walked me to my bed room and well that is where we have been for the last 5 years. Where you see me you see him where you see him you see me! I fit into his arms when he holds me and we fill in each others blanks!








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